A Journey of Self-Acceptance and Growth: We Are The People Your Momma Warned You About
Shawn Lehner

Where societal norms dictate the contours of our existence, maintaining fidelity to one's authentic self emerges as an act of defiance. It's a journey riddled with complexities, where the pull to conform often clashes with the innate desire for self-expression. Yet, amidst the ever-shifting tides of societal expectations, I've unearthed a fundamental truth: genuine fulfillment blossoms not in conformity, but in the unabashed embrace of our true essence. Join me as I crack open a can of whoop ass on self-discovery, navigating the labyrinthine corridors of self-acceptance and growth. Along this odyssey, we'll confront the specters of criticism and negativity, emerging emboldened and resolute in our commitment to authenticity.

Never Be Bothered by Those Who Don't Like You:


It's a simple truth, yet often overlooked – not everyone will like you, and that's okay. In fact, it's more than okay – it's liberating. When we stop seeking validation from others and instead focus on being true to ourselves, we free ourselves from the burden of constantly trying to please everyone. Those who don't appreciate you for who you are will only grow more bitter with time. So, keep shining your light and let them wallow in their own negativity.

Keep Growing and Succeeding:

Life is a journey of constant growth and evolution. It's important to never settle for mediocrity or sell yourself short just to fit someone else's idea of who you should be. True success lies in embracing your uniqueness and striving to become the best version of yourself. As you continue to grow and succeed, remember to celebrate your achievements and never let anyone dim your light.

Let Your Haters Be Your Motivators:

Instead of letting negativity consume you, channel it into fuel for your journey. Let your haters serve as a reminder of your strength and resilience. When faced with criticism or hostility, respond with grace and confidence. After all, nothing speaks louder than success. So, send your haters off with a one-finger salute and keep on shining.

Don't Waste Energy on Misery:

It's easy to get caught up in the drama and negativity that surrounds us, but it's important to remember that misery loves company. Instead of allowing yourself to be dragged down by others' negativity, focus on cultivating positivity and gratitude in your own life. Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you, and let go of those who only bring you down.

In the face of adversity, we discover the profound strength that resides within us – the unwavering resolve to stay true to our convictions, regardless of external opinions. It is this resolute commitment to authenticity that leads us to unparalleled heights of self-acceptance and growth.

Moreover, our embrace of authenticity serves as a beacon of inspiration for others, illuminating a path of self-discovery and empowerment. By fearlessly showcasing our flaws and celebrating our unique quirks, we foster a culture of inclusivity and acceptance, where everyone feels encouraged to embrace their true selves, their most Savage self.

So, let us raise our collective middle fingers in the power of authenticity – a force that transcends societal norms and empowers us to live authentically and unapologetically. May we continue to navigate life's intricacies with courage and integrity, honoring the beauty of our individuality with each defiantly raised middle finger salute. Stay Savage AF!

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