Embracing the Future: Lessons from the Lotus
Shawn Lehner

As we walk on the desolate lands of life, it's challenges and transitions can often leave us feeling stuck in the muddy waters of our past. Yet, as the lotus teaches us, there is profound beauty and growth to be found when we rise from these depths. Let's explores the importance of moving forward, focusing on growth, and the transformative power of embracing change.

The Vision of the Future:

The future holds infinite possibilities, a canvas on which you can paint your aspirations and dreams. It's essential to recognize that while the past may shape us, it doesn't define us. Each day offers a new opportunity to direct our paths towards the future we envision. As we journey forward, it’s crucial to stay focused on our goals and not be deterred by the background noise of other’s opinions. Let them talk; let them watch. Your journey is yours alone.

Moving Forward with Purpose:

It's easy to become entangled in past mistakes or trapped by memories of what was. However, moving forward means taking deliberate steps towards your goals, regardless of past setbacks. This requires determination and a clear understanding of what—or who—truly contributes to your success. Surround yourself with people and environments that nurture your growth and push you towards your aspirations.

Practical Steps to Embrace Change:

  1. Mindfulness and Reflection: Practice mindfulness to stay present and make peace with your past. Regular reflection through journaling can also provide insights into your personal growth journey.
  2. Setting Clear Goals: Define clear, achievable goals that act as milestones on your path to growth, guiding you from where you are to where you want to be.
  3. Building Resilience: Develop resilience to better handle the challenges and setbacks on the path to growth, keeping your focus on long-term visions.

The Wisdom of the Lotus:

Consider the lotus, which begins its life in murky waters, yet rises above the surface to bloom into something beautiful. This transformation is not just about overcoming adversity but also about the beauty of renewal. Like the lotus, we can emerge from our challenges refreshed and renewed, ready to face the sunlight. This process often involves letting go of past burdens and focusing on the potential for greatness that lies within us.

Inspirational Stories of Personal Growth:

1. Veronika's Transformation:

My wife, Veronika, has a story of remarkable courage and transformation, greatly influenced by the shared journey we've embarked upon together. Coming from a challenging family background, she faced constant comparison to others, belittlement, and a persistent feeling of insignificance. Yet, under my guidance and her own innate strength, she chose to channel her struggles into a powerful drive for success. Despite being made to feel like she wasn't important, Veronika refused to let those voices define her worth. Instead, she used them as fuel to propel herself forward.

Her journey involved navigating through the murky waters of self-doubt and societal pressure, all while pursuing higher education and nurturing a career that many thought beyond her reach. Today, Veronika is not only successful in her field but also serves as a beacon of resilience and empowerment. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of self-belief and perseverance, showing that even in the face of adversity, one can rise above and thrive. She has become a beacon to other women that look up to her, a lady leader or what we call a Savage Maiden. All from facing her past and letting it know who really runs her life.

2. Jeremiah's Victory:

Jeremiah, another one of my athletes, embarked on a journey of remarkable transformation, undergoing a complete 180-degree shift in his life. Not too long ago, Jeremiah was caught in a cycle of partying, getting into trouble, and engaging in reckless behavior. His actions lacked consideration for others, and even though he had a passion for lifting, he didn't prioritize his health in the pursuit of his goals.

However, under my guidance and with his newfound determination, Jeremiah began to rewrite his story. In just a year's time, he made significant changes to every aspect of his life. He traded in late nights for early mornings at the gym, replaced reckless behavior with disciplined habits, and shifted his focus from self-indulgence to self-improvement. Jeremiah's transformation wasn't just physical; it was a holistic change that touched every aspect of his being.

Today, Jeremiah stands as a testament to the power of personal growth and redemption. He has not only transformed himself but is now dedicated to helping others who were once in his shoes. With a heart full of empathy and a desire to pay it forward, Jeremiah is pursuing avenues to support and guide individuals on their own journeys of change and self-discovery.

These stories serve as powerful examples of the lotus metaphor in action. Each person, guided by a combined effort of personal will and supportive mentorship, demonstrates that it is possible to rise above adversity and flourish. Their lives remind us that growth and beauty often find their beginnings in the most unlikely places.

3. My Own Journey:

My personal journey has been a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, shaped by a series of trials and triumphs that have led me to where I am today. One of the pivotal moments in my life was the birth of Savage Life, a project that emerged from the depths of adversity and uncertainty.

Throughout my life, I've encountered numerous obstacles and setbacks, each one presenting an opportunity for growth and transformation. There were moments when I found myself at rock bottom, facing circumstances that seemed insurmountable to others. Being homless and sleeping on a cold cement floor in the back of a shop I was running for someone else, with nothing but my cat for company, and living out of a truck while going to the gym to shower, were just a few of the challenges I encountered along the way.

Despite the hardships, I refused to let my circumstances define me. Instead, I embraced each obstacle as an opportunity to learn and grow. It was during those exact moments of adversity above that the idea for Savage Life was born. I realized that I had the power to create something meaningful and purposeful out of the struggles I faced.

Savage Life became more than just a project; it became a symbol of resilience and determination. It was a testament to my refusal to let circumstances dictate my destiny. The challenges I faced and the close calls with death I experienced only reinforced my drive to make the most of every moment and to pursue my passions relentlessly.

Today, Savage Life stands as a beacon of inspiration for those who have faced similar struggles. It serves as a reminder that no matter how difficult the journey may seem, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. May my journey be a testament to the power of perseverance, creativity, and unwavering belief in oneself.

Actions of Reflection: 

  • Assess Your Environment: Think about your surroundings and the people in your life. Are they supportive? Do they feed into your success?
  • Visualize Success: Imagine where you want to be in the future. What does it look like? How does it feel to have reached that point?
  • List Steps for Letting Go: Identify specific past grievances or failures you need to let go of and list practical steps or activities that might help, like forgiveness exercises or speaking to a counselor or mentor.

Letting Go to Grow:

Letting go is an integral part of moving forward. Holding onto past grievances or failures can stunt your growth as much as neglecting your future potential. Embracing change and shedding the weight of past sorrows allows you to travel lighter and faster towards your future successes.

As we look to the future, let's take inspiration from the lotus: emerging from the darkness into greatness. It’s about not letting the beauty of the past overshadow our potential for the future. Keep moving forward, let them talk, and watch as you grow into your greatness. We encourage you to take active steps towards change. Share your stories of growth using #savagelife or @savage_life_co to stay engaged and accountable. Stay Savage AF!

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